Two things happened this morning that made me think about our new “very connected” world. The first was a (thankfully, positive) discussion with a journalist about something that had happened years ago, but that is still present on the Web. “Nothing ever goes away anymore,” he said. So true.
The second was an incident of someone I knew, planning to forward an outraged response to an email she had received, but accidentally sending her response to the original sender instead. Ouch!
In the first instance, it does amaze me how a simple Google search of my name produces items from jobs and volunteer activities long forgotten by me – but not by the Web. In the second instance, who hasn’t meant to forward an email with a comment to a friend or business associate, yet accidentally sent it to the originator?
We have a tendency to think that famous people – actors, politicians, media figures – are the only ones who have to worry about this. After all, they have such a large audience, and in many cases, a wrong phrase or embarrassing video gone viral can put the brakes on their careers.
But we all have audiences we care about, and we should be mindful that what we do and say may become public. Obviously, we should behave well anyway; but a slip in demeanor nowadays can have wide-ranging and long-lasting consequences.
As public relations counselors, we’re often tasked with encouraging our clients to communicate – to tell their story, present their message and respond quickly and clearly in a crisis. But we now have to add a caution to our communication trainings. After all, anything you say publicly “can and will be used,” will never be forgotten, and may define your forever.